“Do you have grandchildren?” I asked with a kind and lilting voice, after being introduced to my newest cousin (by marriage) when we gathered in Alabama for Thanksgiving.
She and my cousin David married this spring; he brings no children to the union but she has one from a previous marriage.
She looked startled and I knew instantly that I had failed miserably.
“No, my daughter is 21 and marrying in December,” she said.